Choosing your next sex toy can be a somewhat complicated task, especially if it is also the first time. There are all colors, sizes, characteristics. A perfect example is the automated sex machine. Buying a sex toy, especially for the first time, may prove to be a somewhat challenging task for many. Here are some questions you should ask yourself to get the best.
What Kind of Stimulation Do I Prefer?
You have to ask yourself
is what type of stimulation you want to experience, or do you know you like best. If you want it to be clitoral or vaginal stimulation, or both if you prefer anal stimulation. The better you know your body, the more you will get out of orgasm and your pleasure.
What Shape Do I Like the Most?
Ask yourself if you have a preference for the shape of your next toy. If, for example, you are going to choose a vibrator, maybe you have a preference because it has a phallic shape and is more realistic, or you prefer the opposite, and you want it not to have it. You may have a preference for more or less striking colors, a style, a softer texture, or maybe you are looking for something more rigid … Or if you are looking for a more discreet size to store or take with you if you go on a trip.
What Will I Use it For?
Maybe you are thinking of using it with your partner or solo, or you want to use it in the shower, so you should keep in mind that it is submersible. Perhaps you prefer to use it over your clothing to start with because you want to try this form of stimulation first or because you are very sensitive. Consider if you want to play outside the home: think in what context you wish to use it, with whom, and how. You will have more clarity on what to choose. Think about what moment of the sexual relationship you want to use it: if you are looking for something to energize the foreplay, if you are looking for something to complement postures or play alone while your partner watches you. The possibilities, as you can see, are endless.
Which Size Do I Prefer?
You should choose
a small size to start. Often, what you see as a suitable size because it looks more like the size of a real penis is not the best because it is not the same for your body or for you to experiment with a toy than to have sex with a natural penis. You are not going to lubricate or arouse yourself the same with a toy as when you are with a real person, so start with smaller sizes.…